Success Stories

Read What Our Clients Says About Working With Elite Asian Matchmakers

RJ

Entrepreneur | Happily dating

Thank you, Xiaoli, for listening. To the successes and the failures, and to the hopes and the regrets. After years of lessons, I knew what I wanted and I knew what I could be to that one special person. Yet even if Einstein was misquoted about insanity, I nevertheless kept looking in the wrong places for my person and expecting different results.Thank you for your empathy and your compassion. Through our journey of discovery, you led me to my person. From that initial video chat, to the day we met face to face in Bali, I pinch myself wondering if it’s all a dream. From Michelin in the Eiffel Tower, to riding shopping carts in Costco, she and I just click. You cared enough to listen and sensed that putting us together would let destiny lay out a road before us. And it has in ways that I never even knew possible.Thank you so much!

Angela J

Product Manager | Engaged 

Hi Xiaoli, just wanted to let you know that Eric and I got engaged and we’re going to get married this Fall. Wanted to thank you for bringing us together!

F.Z.

Founder & Investor | Happily dating

Hi Xiaoli, I’d like to let you know that I am very happy with L and decided not to see any more of candidates at this stage. I’m so grateful for your help!

Dave

Billionaire CEO | Married with a new baby 

I was referred to EAM by another matchmaker because only EAM can meet my search criteria. It took 8 matches to find my dream girl. Thank you for the service. No further recommendations needed.

Rose. F

CPA | Happily engaged

We’re officially engaged! Thank you for bringing us together and for all your thoughtful guidance. I’m deeply grateful!

Drew J

CTO | Married with a baby 

I’m writing to send you a heartfelt thank you for the introduction to Cecelia just over one year ago. We recently celebrated our very first date. We’ve both had such fun thinking about and laughing together about that first meeting. We’ve come so far since then!

When I contacted you, I was really at a bottom point. My relationship of nearly 30 years was firmly gone. I was sad and lonely. I had tried the apps for about 48 hours and realized that would be a nearly hopeless path filled with false representations and wasted time. Talking with you gave me hope. You spent the time to get to know me and helped me think about possibilities that I had not even dared hope for. You reminded me that I’m a good person and would likely be successful in finding someone that was a good match.

Cecelia was the light I was looking for. Her beauty is easy to see, but beyond that, I remember that you said she is wise beyond her years. You are right. She has consistently challenged and inspired me over the last year. She has pulled me through so much darkness, and I think we have a really bright future ahead. Last year was incredible, but this year we got married!Thank you for what you are doing. I’m not sure what percentage end up as winners, but I can tell you this one is a big win!

Katie W

Investment Fund Manager | Happily dating 

Xiaoli was instrumental in my ultimate success in finding my ideal partner in my early forties. She coached me on how to naturally show the feminine side of myself and to view each date as an opportunity for self-discovery and enjoyment, rather than merely a process of analyzing compatibility and long-term potential. Xiaoli’s connection with me on a spiritual level encouraged me to trust the universe to bring me the ideal partner, understanding the traits I desired through the quality dates she facilitated. She was a constant source of support through the ups and downs of my journey, providing invaluable feedback and insights that helped me become a better date and a better companion to both myself and others. With the wisdom and self-discovery gained from this experience, I ultimately found a great partner who embodies all my desired traits. I wholeheartedly recommend Xiaoli and her Elite Asian Matchmaker team to anyone seeking true love and long-term relationships!

Denny Z

VP of Marketing | Happily dating 

I had a great experience working with Xiaoli and would highly recommend her to anyone looking for help in their dating journey. I had a busy schedule, few hobbies that naturally led to meeting new people, and wasn’t finding the right connections through dating apps. Xiaoli took the time to get to know me, understand what I was looking for, and provided thoughtful guidance when I felt uncertain. Thanks to her efforts, I’m now in a happy relationship with someone who matches my energy and values. Thank you Xiaoli!

Angela L

Mortgage Banker | Engaged 

Hi Xiaoli, I am engaged !!! He just proposed this last Friday. It was a surprise. Thank you so much for introducing us.

Tom H

CEO | Happily dating 

I personally recommend this matchmaker Xiaoli. She is so good. Some context, I am stable financially sound, executive level. I wanted someone to help up level and screen candidates for a suitable match than I was getting from a traditional dating app. Xiaoli truly gives individual attention to get to know me as a person. All the candidates presented are really good: beautiful, kind, values. After every date I was asked for feedback and got feedback. It really help me solidify what I am looking for and helped me date better. Also she understands very well cultural nuances of dating asian. She also make a time when I want to talk about someone in more depth than dating. This is a person that really does wants to help you succeed. Not once did I feel pressure to go with someone. It was really wanting to find a match that I am comfortable. I also know she hold ladies events that are very well run. I’ve heard from the girls that she takes the time to coach and help them. What an amazing matchmaker!

Jerry B

Lawyer | Happily dating 

Working with Xiaoli was a pleasure. She fully explained the matchmaking process well, which was a new experience for me. Then she really took the time to get to know me and understand what I was looking for. Based upon that information, she filtered through the profiles numerous people select the most appropriate for me to meet. She facilitated the first few meetings with each, and then provided helpful feedback and advice. I am happy to say those candidates she provided were very cultured, charming, intelligent, which is exactly what I was looking for. After a little over 3 months, I am already off the program and into exclusive dating with a lady I totally adore! I would highly recommend Xiaoli to a friend.

Mia T

Director in Finance

Working with Xiaoli and her team has been a true pleasure. Navigating the challenging dating scene of the NY metropolitan area, they introduced me to several high-quality matches through dedicated search, even going above and beyond to find extra ways to expand candidate options. More than just a matchmaker, Xiaoli feels like an older sister—someone I can genuinely trust. For dates with real potential, she always follows up, listens carefully to feedback from both sides, and offers honest opinion before letting things go. I truly believe Xiaoli and her team’s ultimate goal is to help the clients find lasting relationships, even if it takes a little longer than the initial contract time.

Sandy F

Consultant | In exclusive relationship 

Thanks Xiaoli. He treats me really well. Not just opening doors, etc., but he cares about me a lot. We have great connection. I am using all of your techniques in this relationship. He says our communication has been wonderful and he appreciate me just the way I am. I feel soooo comfortable and at ease with him. Heck, I am in my sweatpants and t-shirt and he still thinks I am beautiful and sexy. We have been communication a lot, having a lot of fun and enjoying the time we spend together

Daniel J

Consultant | Engaged 

Hi Xiaoli, just wanted to thank you for introducing to Sierra! It has been an amazing journey so far and could not ask for more in a partner, we’re in love. We continue to grow together each day and are thankful for it!

Sue W

Former Fashion Model​

I had a great experience with elite Asian matchmaker. I got burned out by online dating with endless conversations that lead to wasted time. I engaged with Xiaoli and immediately knew there was a difference. It’s matchmaking! No swiping or scrolling. Xiaoli listened to my needs and make introductions and setup first dates. All I need to do is to say yes to the people I want to meet and go on the actual dates with them in 1-2 weeks time frame after I said yes. It’s refreshing experience. I haven’t found my true love yet but the people I met are great people with quality. If you are a busy professional like me and have no time to go on dating sites or events where you can meet quality people, then this is the perfect service for you.

Jenny D

Professor

I am glad I met Matchmaker Xiaoli. In the beginning of our process, she made her time to fully understand me, my mind, my personalities/characters and what I exactly look for in a partner. She not only made introduction for me to meet quality gentlemen, but also guided me in the process of dating and provided me with effective advice to help me navigating the relationship. I had been out of dating for so long. Overall, she is very professional. She demonstrated a high level of professional skills in matchmaking and in dealing with relationship matters.

Eric M

Software Engineer | Engaged 

I was so tire of online dating, almost at the edge of giving up, then my friend referred me to Xiaoli to try matchmaking. Literally within three months of working with her, I already became exclusive with an amazing lady.

Victoria L

Coach and Consultant

I am so happy that I chose to work with Xiaoli and Michelle through Elite Asian Matchmakers. I wanted guidance and help with navigating the online dating process, and Xiaoli was able to offer different options and help me choose the one that made the most sense for me. Michelle has helped make online dating fun and given me such great tips along the way. She’s a great cheerleader, with wise advice, and it’s also really enjoyable to communicate with her in general. I’m so impressed with how she has figured out how to work so seamlessly with me. I realize now that part of what I needed was more self-confidence and savviness about how to navigate this process. I’m very grateful. Highly recommend!

Steven W

Real Estate Developer | Happily dating 

If you are Asian in America and having a hard time finding the right partner due to cultural and societal differences, I believe Xiaoli can bridge that gap. She understands what you are looking for in a partner and will be diligent in trying to find matches. She takes time for her clients and doesn’t act like the other matchmaking sites that just try to meet quotas.

Daisy K

Data Analyst | Married with a baby 

We are all craving love! Society provides so many online dating apps, but it seems to create more distance between people. Where to find the right person and how to maintain a relationship? I highly recommend Xiaoli, a role model for women and has a kind heart to help people find their partners. Not only does she screen the highly qualified candidates for the right people to match, and she also coaches people on how to date! Yes, dating needs effort too. If you are a person who is ready to settle down, to have a family, and is prepared to meet your special one. She is the right person for you. I wish you all find your special one, and happily ever after.